Hey, .
If you've been on my list for ANY amount of time, you know that I talk a LOT about confidence. Being yourself. And getting to the ROOT of the issues.
What I DON"T talk about enough (and one thing that underlies a LOT of my clients' difficulties with confidence, hiding who they really are, and feeling not good enough) is trauma.
Big T and little T trauma. Of all kinds.
One thing I know for sure is this: hurt people hurt people. Then THEY hurt people, whether they mean to or not. It's a viscious cycle that's hard to break.
Full transparency here, because I believe in being real: I'm crying as I write this email, because someone very close to me hurt me very deeply.
She is dealing with her own deep-seated trauma, but she doesn't have the skills, self-awareness, or maturity to handle it effectively. So she lashes out. And it hurts.
(And, yes, I have strong boundaries that I enforce with love and empathy. It still hurts.)
I see this type of behavior all the time in my clients. They were hurt deeply, often by someone close to them who had their own unresolved issues. Then, because my clients haven't fully dealt with the trauma, they, in turn, end up hurting others. Even when they don't intend to.
They explode when they want to be patient. They put up defensive walls to protect themselves, shutting out the people they care about most. They get triggered by a client, colleague, or random cashier whose behavior/attitude/face reminds them of someone from the past, and they respond to THAT person as if they were the one who hurt them years ago.
If you don't heal what hurt you, you'll bleed on those who didn't cut you.
Your family. Your clients. Your friends.
The good news is that you CAN heal. And it doesn't have to take ages.
My Confidence & Authenticity Private Mentorship is designed to help you deal with the emotional baggage - including trauma - that makes you feel not good enough by getting to the root cause of the issues. So you can heal the past, remove the mask, and make your mark on the world - in a way that's true to who you are.
If you're ready to break the cycle of trauma and hurt, then let's chat about whether the Confidence & Authenticity Mentorship is right for you.
Because you're worth it.
