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Last week, we went to Florida for a vacation. I almost wrote "sunny Florida," because that's what we think of, isn't it? But it was cloudy the whole time and rained many days. That didn't stop us, though! Our kids had a blast finding sea urchins at Clearwater Beach. They even found a starfish!
(Don't worry! We put them all back. No echinoderms were harmed in the making of this email 😉)
Our Saturday flight home was canceled due to weather. The soonest they could get us out was Monday! Oh, and there were NO hotel rooms available (Spring Break in Orlando. Yeah...)
So we slept in the airport for 2 days, catching catnaps on hard floors and uncomfortable chairs.
As I left the ticketing counter on Sunday morning, where I'd negotiated (for the second day) for food vouchers to feed my family, I was reminded of an important truth: We cannot control our circumstances, but we CAN control our attitude.
There were a lot of ANGRY passengers at that counter. The ticket agent had been berated for two days straight. I did my best to stay polite while firmly advocating for our needs. Staying calm is NOT something I'm always good at! But I tried to remember that it wasn't HER fault, and she was doing the
best she could.
Trust me: I'm NOT one for toxic positivity or happy-slappy "good vibes only." Sometimes things really suck. I believe in acknowledging the suck 100%. But I refuse to be STUCK there.
Don't get stuck in the suck.
Granted, sometimes it takes a little longer to get unstuck, doesn't it? It's not always immediate. But recognizing your locus of control is the key to everything.
Whether you're working through trauma, emotional baggage from the past, or current sucky experiences, recognize what you DO have control over and focus there.
In the airport, that meant gratitude that we could buy toothbrushes and toothpaste (EVERYTHING was in our checked luggage, and we NEVER check bags...), baby wipes to sorta kinda freshen up with, and the travel pillows and blankets my hubby bought us all for Christmas. Who knew they'd be not just
handy but ESSENTIAL on this trip?
What's a situation you're struggling with today? Something that affects the way you see yourself... Go ahead and acknowledge the suck. Don't try to bury it under the carpet. That only makes things worse long term. Then determine your locus and control and put your focus there.
Maybe you attitude is all you can control. Cool. Go with that. You don't have to put on a happy face and pretend everything's peachy when it isn't.
But recognize that you DO have the power to change. To heal. To let that experience be a part of you but not define you.
I'm not saying it's easy! But it's definitely easier when you have a guide, a mentor, someone who's been there and can help you through it.
If you're ready to let go of the emotional baggage that makes you feel Not Good Enough, reach out. I can help you.
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Because healing is necessary. It's easier when you have a guide. And YOU, my dear, are worth it
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© Holly Doherty Rediscover Radiance, LLC
| As a Business Authenticity Mentor, I help you know your worth, radiate confidence, and BE YOURSELF in your life and business - so you can build a business you're excited to wake
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