You are receiving this email because you signed up for an event, training, product, or free gift. If you no longer wish to receive emails from Rediscover Radiance, LLC, simply unsubscribe here or by clicking the link at the bottom of this email. Hey, !
A colleague recommended a course today based on some questions I had. It was exactly what I needed.
I clicked "Buy." Then I was presented the bump offer - a lower-cost product to compliment the main purchase. It was about writing Instagram captions. (The main offer was NOT about Instagram, though.)
It took me 2 HOURS to decide if I'd get the bump offer. To decide if it would be helpful or a waste of time.
But here's the thing: I don't USE Instagram for my business. But the fear of missing out on the offer felt REAL and compelling. It's only offered HERE, no where else! What if I START using IG and have no idea how to write captions? I won't have another opportunity to
buy it!
Ultimately (after WAY too much time and a frank talk with a trusted life-and-business bestie - thanks, Kim!!) I decided against it. Even if I do start using IG, captions are not the first OR next thing I'd need to learn about it.
But it got me thinking about FOMO and peer pressure. "Everyone" says your business should be on Instagram, don't they?
When I analyzed it, the main reason I was thinking about using the platform was NOT because it would be in my best interest, but because everyone said I should do it.
Peer pressure and FOMO don't just show up in business. They're in our LIVES as well. And it can cause us to compromise our
convictions. To lose ourselves to the expectations of other people.
Remember a time when you were in high school, or maybe younger, when you went along with the crowd, doing something you really didn't want to do, then regretted it later? Maybe it was smoking that cigarette. Kissing that guy. Sneaking out that one
night.
Do that often enough, and you lose yourself. You become someone you never intended to be. Then you look at yourself in the mirror one day and wonder who you are how you came to be in that place.
It's no wonder why you don't feel confident. Why you second-guess yourself and beat yourself up. Why you sabotage yourself six ways from Sunday.
But there's hope! Just like losing yourself happened one experience at a time (whether it was your own decisions or decisions that were made FOR you), you can find yourself one decision, one action, one STEP at a time.
Where do FOMO and peer pressure show up in your life today? How does it affect how you see yourself? How much you love yourself and believe in yourself?
|
P.S. - Are you ready to let go of the expectations of other people so you can develop REAL confidence and self-love? So you can SHOW UP the way you want to and have the impact you were created to have? In my Confidence & Authenticity Private Mentorship, I help you heal your past so you can rediscover the heart and soul of who you
were created to be before the world told you lies about yourself. You'll accept yourself, love yourself, and BE yourself more than ever before, so you can have the impact you were created for.
If you haven't done so yet, join my private Worthy By Design Facebook
group for entrepreneurs - a community to know your worth, radiate confidence and be YOURSELF in your life and business so you feel freedom, joy, and excitement to wake up every day. Eliminate the emotional baggage that makes you feel not good enough and stop the self-sabotage that makes you feel stuck. Love your business, love your clients, and love YOURSELF when you embrace your most authentic, confident, be*YOU*tiful self!
|
Get 1-on-1 coaching!
Are you ready to radiate confidence and be true to YOU, so you can build a business you can't wait to wake up to every day?
Are you ready to put an end to the constant self-criticism and doubt that stops you in your tracks?
Then let's chat!
Go ahead. You're worth it!
For support, contact Holly@RediscoverRadiance.com
© Holly Doherty Rediscover Radiance, LLC
| As a Business Authenticity Mentor, I help you know your worth, radiate confidence, and BE YOURSELF in your life and business - so you can build a business you're excited to wake
up to every day. I know what it's like to hide who you really are and sabotage yourself six ways from Sunday, and I help you eliminate the emotional baggage that makes you feel not good enough and stop the self-sabotage that makes you feel stuck.
Love your business, love your clients, and love YOURSELF when you embrace your most authentic, confident, be*YOU*tiful YOU!
Did you get this newsletter from a friend? If so, I have a free gift for you!
Download your copy of The Self-Worth Key: The Essential Tool to Unlock Your Worth and Get Back Into the Driver's Seat of Your Life. Visit http://www.RediscoverRadiance/key to download your
copy today.
|
|
|
|
