Trouble is, most well-meaning coaches leave it at that: Get over it. As if it's a light switch you can flip at will. But if you've got ANY sort of trauma in your
past, you know it's not that easy.
I'm just gonna say it: I see a LOT of unresolved trauma in the coaching world, and traumatized coaches who re-traumatize their clients.
"You've gotta constantly hustle!"
"Work now like others won't so you can live later like others can't!"
"No excuses!"
"If you don't results like mine, it's because you don't WANT it bad enough!"
Sound familiar?
Most coaches TELL you to work on your mindset. They might not even you some generic personal development advice.
But they don't really KNOW how to help you "get over it."
Because that takes expertise that most business coaches simply don't have.
So if you've been told by coach after coach to simply "put the past behind you," and you feel crappy about yourself because you just can't seem to DO that, it's not your fault.
You're not SUPPOSED to just be able to do that.
It takes work. And a system. And expert guidance.
The good news, it that I've seen SO many people just like you who, once they get this piece nailed down, once they make peace with their past and know their worth at a soul-deep level, SOAR.
They succeed at the other coaching programs because they've got solid foundation of
believe in themselves. They're no longer sabotaged by ghosts of their past - personal or business failures, abusive relationships, decisions they deeply regret.
And they KNOW they can succeed. They KNOW they're enough, and they KNOW they're worth it.
So, yes, by all means, get over it.
But don't have the unrealistic expectation that you'll do it instantly and without help. Because it you could have, you'd have done it by now.
Give yourself time. Give yourself grace. And give yourself the gift of help.
