What to do when you don't feel confident

Published: Tue, 04/25/17

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Do you feel insecure when facing a new situation, and lack the confidence you need? You may lack skill and experience in an area, but you can look at your past experiences as evidence of your ability to figure things out. Every time you learn something new, you build a library of personal successes that you can draw from in those situations. You're able to say, "I may have never faced this before." Or "This isn't something I'm great at. BUT look at all those other times I was in a similar situation and I nailed it! I nailed it once, and I'll do it again!"

This is called Competence, and it's one of the 3 Pillars of Self-Worth. You can read more about Competence in my blog post here.

So how do you build your competence? One strategy is to learn something new. You'll probably feel awkward at first, and you may fail. You may fail a lot. But don't quit. Keep at it until you're as good as you want to be. You'll add that experience to your Personal Success Library.

And the next time you feel less than confident, remind yourself of all the experiences in that Personal Success Library. Remind yourself that you may not have all the answers, but you can figure it out. Remind yourself that if you fail, you can weather the storm and come out standing, because you've done it before. Remind yourself that while your worth is not determined by your performance, you're capable of some pretty kick-butt performance.
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Holly Doherty is an author, speaker, coach, and Sculptor of Self-WorthTM. She is the founder of Rediscover RadianceTM and the creator of The Self-Worth SolutionTM and Radiant ReinventionTM. Women hire Holly to reveal their brilliance and reclaim their worth, because too many women are sabotaged by self-doubt, afraid to be themselves, and hiding from their true purpose. So Holly helps them turn their pain into power, remove the mask, and stand boldly in their Radiant SelfTM.

She is the author of numerous books, including Get Organized This Weekend and The Magic of Family Meals: 115 Conversation Starters to Connect With Your Kids.

Drawing on lessons she learned from her own struggle to restore her self-esteem following more than 20 years of abuse, she brings a message of hope and healing that empowers women to discover, love, and live their authentic selves so they have the confidence to pursue their dreams and rock the world the way they’re meant to. Like a modern-day Michelangelo, Holly Doherty helps women chisel away all the bits and pieces of their identity that falsely define them, and helps them discover the unique, amazing masterpiece they were created to be..

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