[Radiance] Affirmations can HURT you - and how to make them work

Published: Wed, 10/23/19

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Hey, Beautiful!

Have you ever repeated an affirmation till you were blue in the face, only to feel WORSE?

My clients tell me this all the time.

It doesn't surprise me. Studies have actually shown that affirmations simply don't work for most people. And worse, the often backfire.

Here's why:

Most affirmations seem like a LIE to your subconscious mind.

Take the affirmation card pictured, for example. "I'm beautiful and everybody loves me."

No they don't. Nor SHOULD they. Everyone does NOT love you, and you KNOW it. You simply CAN'T make everybody love you, no how much people-pleasing or serial sacrificing you do.

And I've worked with enough women to guess that, unless you've done some deep inner work on it already, chances are that - deep down - you don't REALLY believe you're beautiful, either.

I HOPE you believe it. Because you ARE.

But when you don't really believe the affirmations you repeat, you begin to feel like a liar. A fraud. A hypocrite.

The very tool that was supposed to help you makes you feel WORSE.

Then you wonder what's wrong with YOU, when really it's the fault of the TOOL and how you use it.

On today's Worthy Wednesday livestream, we talk about affirmations - why they fail and how to use them the RIGHT way so they actually HELP you instead of hurt you.

>>>Watch it here: https://www.facebook.com/holly.wintersdoherty/videos/10219879499715990/UzpfSTMyNDc3MzQxNzkxMjExNDoxMTQ2OTgwNjgyMzU4MDQ2/ <<<

I'm trying to find a consistent time that works for the Worthy Wednesday livestreams.

I'll be honest: I'm more of a fly-by-the-seat-of-my-pants kind of person, and consistency is not one of my strong suits. I accept that about myself, and I'm working on it. (Accepting our flaws is a whole 'nother topic all by itself! Maybe a topic for a future livestream.)

Speaking of topics, I'd love to know what YOU want to talk about on a livestream. What questions do you have about self-worth, confidence, or being yourself? What do YOU need to be able to give yourself the same unconditional love and acceptance you give others? How can I help you deal with the false beliefs and negative experiences that keep you from seeing yourself as the masterpiece you were created to be?

Reply to this email and let me know. I personally read every reply I get, and I want to create content and trainings that are relevant to YOU.

Because you're worth it.

Until next time...

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Holly Doherty is an author, speaker, Trauma Recovery Mentor, and Sculptor of Self-Worth^TM. She is the founder of Rediscover Radiance^TM and the creator of The Self-Worth Solution^TM and Radiant Reinvention^TM. Holly helps women heal their past, remove the mask, and rediscover their authentic, Radiant Self^TM. In short, she shows them how to rebuild their confidence from the inside out so they can have the impact they were created for.

Drawing on lessons she learned from her own struggle to restore her self-esteem following more than 20 years of abuse, she brings a message of hope and healing that empowers women to discover, love, and live their authentic selves. Like a modern-day Michelangelo, Holly Doherty helps women chisel away all the bits and pieces of their identity that falsely define them, and helps them discover the unique, amazing masterpiece they were created to be.

She is the author of numerous books, including The Self-Worth Solution for Smart Entrepreneurs: Know Your Self-Worth, Grow Your Net Worth and The Magic of Family Meals: 115 Conversation Starters to Connect With Your Kids.

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